The solemn demonstration that took place in front of Palo Alto City Hall on Saturday night was almost as striking for what wasn't there as for what was.
There were no political signs or chants. No calls to support Israel or to denounce Hamas. No voices of support for Palestinian independence and no diatribes against Israeli occupation. No arguments for a ceasefire.
The only poster that was prominently displayed at the Nov. 11 event was one announcing the name of the event: Vigil for Peace. And for the group Multifaith Voices for Peace & Justice, which organized the rally, that was the point.
The vigil, which featured songs, prayers, tears, hugs and moments of silence, brought about 150 people to King Plaza. The messages in their songs and prayers were purposefully vague, multi-cultural and universal. Louis' Armstrong's "It's a Wonderful World." Emma Revolution's "Peace Salaam Shalom." A recital of "Prayer for mothers for life and peace," which was written by Sheikha Ibtisam Mahameed and Rabbi Tamar Elad-Applebaum.
The Saturday event almost didn't happen. While Multifaith Voices for Peace & Justice prides itself on inclusiveness, event organizers acknowledged the difficulty of coming up with the right words to say during times of high divisiveness and trauma.
The Rev. Eileen Altman, who serves on the organization's Steering Committee, said the tension within the group's ranks has been similar to the tension within the wider community. Some members feel like there hasn't been enough sympathy for the devastation that happened in Israel on Oct. 7. Others feel like Israel's subsequent military actions in Gaza and attacks by Israeli settlers in the West Bank haven't been given enough attention, Altman said in an interview.
Despite the difficulty in coming up with a unified message, the group felt it's important to rally and bear witness to the current moment, she said. Since the Oct. 7 terrorist attack, members of the multi-faith group have been in "excruciating pain together," she said.
"We've grieved together, we've wondered what we might bear witness to during this very difficult time," said Altman, associate pastor at First Congregational Church in Palo Alto. "We felt it was important to bear witness for peace in the midst of this violence, as we have for other wars. But we also struggled with what to say.
"We felt like, even if we don't quite know what to say yet, we know we want to pray together for peace. We want to sing together, we want to pray together. We want to be together."
The multi-faith group was born in the aftermath of 9/11 and the ensuing war in Iraq. In 2003, members of various Midpeninsula congregations started holding monthly meetings, which take place on the 11th of each month as a commemoration of the group's origin. Today, the group lists as its participants 17 congregations and religious organizations, a roster that includes Trinity Church in Menlo Park, American Muslim Voice, Mountain View Buddhist Temple, St. Thomas Episcopal Church in Palo Alto, and Beyt Tekkun in Berkeley.
Altman said that since the group's founding two decades ago, no issue has been as divisive and complex as Israel and Palestine. That, she said, is a reflection of the fact members of the group come from different places and, as such, have different views and positions.
Diana Gibson, convener for Multifaith Voices for Peace and Justice, told the assembled crowd that the group made a conscious decision to keep politics out of the event to create a "safe space" for everyone to pray together. For organizers, this meant banning signs and cancelling speakers, Gibson said.
The organization considered not doing anything at all but decided that this was not an option, Gibson said.
"For while it is a vigil for peace in the Middle East, we also desperately need peace here and now," Gibson said. "The wounds are deep here and, tragically, as we all know, the violence and hatred have struck here as well. We could not be silent. That said, words can cause unintended pain."
Sumina Sundas, one of the founders of Multifaith Voices for Peace & Justice, acknowledged the difficulty of showing restraint and avoiding politics altogether during the present time.
Sundas said in an interview she strongly supports a ceasefire in Israel and believes the situation will only get worse if things remain on the current trajectory. But she also noted that some of her Jewish colleagues are offended by that position. Her comments at the vigil avoided any mention of a ceasefire.
"All of us are walking on eggshells and the only reason we're surviving is because of having these long-term relationships," Sundas said after the event.
If anything, the recent conflict has only reinforced the importance of the multi-faith group and the relationships that its members had forged over the past two decades, she said.
"We are honest and we care about each other," Sundas said. "We have rabbis in the group and I deeply care about them because they're building friendships. … The reason we can do this particular work today is because we have relationships."
These ties were on display Saturday, as leaders from three different faiths – Danielle Parish, co-founder and lead pastor at Spark Church; Farha Andrabi, founder and president of the Mountain View Palo Alto Musalla; and Rabbi Sheldon Lewis, rabbi emeritus at Kol Emeth -- recited "Prayer of Mothers for Life and Peace" in English, Arabic and Hebrew. At the conclusion of the vigil, all attendees stood in a circle to jointly recite a prayer for peace.
One of the goals of the event, Sundas said, is to encourage residents of different faiths and backgrounds to get to know one another. All religions, she noted, encourage their followers to love their neighbors.
"But the thing is, how do we love our neighbors if we don't even know them?" she said. "So my request to my fellow Americans would be: Please get to know your neighbors. Get to know everybody. Because the only way this can subside -- this war and violence -- is if we see each other and see our humanity."
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Registered user
Another Palo Alto neighborhood
on Nov 13, 2023 at 10:59 am
Registered user
on Nov 13, 2023 at 10:59 am
It is sad that "walking on eggshells" is the only way that groups can do things like this. For the Land of the Free, it is a sign that we are not as free as we think
I value others' opinions, but it is a shame if they are not able to tell me what they are, while I feel it necessary not to share mine.
This is definitely another way to look at freedom.
Thank you for covering the meeting and very thankful that it remained peaceful.
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Another Palo Alto neighborhood
on Nov 13, 2023 at 11:51 am
Registered user
on Nov 13, 2023 at 11:51 am
Praying for peace is exactly what we need right now. A prayer is not walking on eggshells. Reaching out to neighbors is not walking on eggshells. Taking time to quiet angry thoughts and consider a peaceful path and question what is in our hearts is what most religions call us to do. Even if you are an atheist, your psychoanalyst will tell you this is good practice in life when we are faced with terrible circumstances and choices.
Tribalism is not, fundamentally, humane. Tribalism organized around religion (or social media) does not serve our souls. It does not honor God, Allah, or any other name we ascribe to a divine or other spiritual source of life or peace. Tribalism drives slavery, murder, war ...and many of the small and largest abuses humans have done to each other throughout history.
Terrible things were done by Hamas. There have been awful results from the Israeli response. Palestinians are caught in the middle, partly because they actively or passively enabled Hamas to grow and build over time in their community. This is complicated. Great wrongs have been done on all sides, affected by generations of violence and hatred that has lasted so long, is so deep, and has done so much harm, people on all sides no longer know the depth of its roots in their hearts, minds and souls that are driving the choices they are making.
The longstanding hatred, fear, rage on all sides of this needs to be considered with quieter hearts. Prayer can help. Individual efforts to understand can help. Before we can take appropriate action in the world, we need to understand what is in our own hearts. Let's please stop sanctimoniously screaming at each other and employ quieter hearts and greater reason and understanding to work together to solve root problems.
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College Terrace
on Nov 13, 2023 at 9:17 pm
Registered user
on Nov 13, 2023 at 9:17 pm
I thought Michael Barbaro's 11/3/23 40-minute interview with David Shipler was helpful in understanding the staying power of narrative in this tragic case and in general.
Web Link . FYI
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Menlo Park
on Nov 14, 2023 at 5:13 pm
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on Nov 14, 2023 at 5:13 pm
Thank you for the thoughtful coverage of this Vigil for Peace in the Middle East hosted by Multifaith Voices for Peace and Justice (MVPJ).
The third picture truly captures the meaning of the vigil. Jewish, Muslim and Christian leaders read a “Prayer of Mothers for Life and Peace,” written in 2014 by a Jewish Israeli rabbi and a Palestinian Muslim Sheikha (faith leader) living in northern Israel. Like the writers of the prayer, we gathered as a multifaith community to recognize the suffering of all people involved in this horrific conflict, and lift up voices from all sides calling for an end to all of the violence and yearning for peace and life.
Your article included interviews with Christian and Muslim leaders of MVPJ. As convener of that organization, in order to be more inclusive, I write to add a Jewish voice with a reflection from Rabbi Amy Eilberg.
“I deeply appreciate the work of MVPJ and the 150 people who attended the beautiful event on November 11th. In these days of trauma and horrifying violence, it is very tempting to take sides, advocating for one group over another, as if rooting for our own team. Instead, our vigil took the side of peace and humanity, reaching for our common humanity, our collective grief, and our shared concern for all those suffering from this terrible conflict.”
We believe that when we see and hear each other’s fears and grief, together we can build an even stronger call for the end of injustice and violence, in the Middle East and here in our own local communities.